Elder Paxman got a visit from Dad this past week. Lincoln was on his way home from a cross country trip to the National Fire Academy and stopped to spend a few hours with Elder Paxman and his companion. Following are the pictures that he sent me to make me feel jealous. :)
Elder Paxman and his companion took his dad to one of his favorite little Taco places for lunch.
Elder Paxman and his companion Elder Labrum.
The study are in their apartment.
Elder Paxman's favorite choice of food this week.
This dresser has been in the mission in one of the apartments since 1992, and every missionary that has used it has signed it! I absolutely love this! The history!! That means this dresser has been in the Indianapolis Indiana mission and been used by missionaries for 23 Years!! When the missionary is transferred out of this area/apartment they sign the dresser. Elder Paxman will sign the dresser in 5 weeks!
Linc with Elder Paxman and Elder Labrum inside of the Taco place. It is also a little store.
Dear Mom,
I knew you would be super
Jelly when I found out that dad would be coming to visit on his way home from
his trip. It was really fun to have dad come.
In
the pictures there is a dresser that missionaries have signed; daddy said you
told him there is also a table in one of the other apartments. Did you sign it as well? Where is it and did you get a picture? I think these are the coolest things ever!! I did sign the table although I do not
remember if I took a picture... It was in Logansport.. So hopefully I took a
picture I think I did. I would have to look through all the photos I have
taken. The dresser is super cool! I am excited to sign it and get a picture
next to it!
It was really fun to take dad
to the taco place! Not to mention yummy!! It has really good tacos. I am glad
you enjoyed the pictures. Plus you can just look at the pictures and see if I
have gotten a little more in shape! haha Or maybe you can't tell, maybe I
puffed out my shirt just to make it look the same... Mwahahahaha evil laugh of
awesomeness!!! Or… maybe daddy took
pictures of him with things in the way. I actually think I have gained weight...
That's not good! Having Dad visit me in the mission was a fun memory and one we
will not soon forget I am sure.
Did
your companion mind spending a few hours with Daddy? Did it bore him? Yes my companion was just as excited as I was,
and I loved spending the day with dad. It was awesome! No he wasn't bored; he
is just quiet all the time. He enjoyed it though.
I hear
Elder Rowberry, Hayden changed his wedding date?! Yep he
did, and I am excited that now I will be able to be there!!!!
What
did you do with the rest of your Saturday after Dad left? We went and taught a few lessons, and just did
the work.
How
has your week been? How is the missionary
work? My week was pretty good I
would have to say. We tracted a little so it was all good. The work has been
going good; we had a few good lessons. We also helped with the temple prep
class which was kind of fun, especially since I never took it haha. We were
able to teach Lupita, Vicenta, and Maria which was really good. Also we had a
really good lesson with Daniel. I also made a bet with him, so I might need
some money on my personal funds... hahaha Anyway....The bet was about going out
to eat not actual money, so don’t worry about that mom. So they are doing well,
we hope to help them get baptized at the latest the 27th of June. We are still
working on finding new investigators and really helping that family progress to
baptism within the next month. Church was good, we had a really amazing lesson
with Daniel at church so that was awesome!
What
percentage of Sacrament meeting do you think you understand? I got this question from Griff… he was asking
Trenton the same question this week.
Spanish Sacrament meetings I say I understand about 99% Of what is being said,
general conversation more like 90% sometimes there are still a few words I do
not know. Actually there are a lot of words I do not know.
Here
at home Brooklyn is gearing up for her 9th grade Lagoon Day and we
were remembering the last time we went what a big chicken Elder Paxman was on
the scary rides. In his defense it was
quite a while ago. I reminded him of how
funny it was. Yea I am sure you all got a good laugh out of
that. Talk about humiliating... I am kind of a pansy mom, if you have not
realized. I still am one too. Maybe if I watch some more Grimm and Supernatural
when I get home I will do alright, who knows, my guess is no. I have not been
to Lagoon after that event, man I was a freaking chicken... I still am, but not
that bad thank goodness. Plus what is the purpose of scaring the crap out of
yourself? I heard it is like drugs for some people. They need that adrenaline
rush, and their body loves it so it wants more. Hence addictions to scary
movies. I would like to stay free of that one if I could hahaha.
You
mentioned you teach a weekly English class?
What day do you teach it? Is it
mostly members and how many people usually come? We usually have the class Fridays and it depends
usually around 6 people. Not a ton, but enough. Most are members, but there are
a few that are not. There is not much more to tell you about the class.
How
was P-Day/Memorial Day? Did you do
anything with the members or investigators? For Memorial Day we
played sports with a bunch of members and Lupita and Daniel were there, which
by the way, at 2 man volleyball Daniel and I being on a team destroyed
everyone!! It was awesome!! We make a good team, it was really fun. After that
we went and had a BBQ with most of the same members that came and played
sports. It was really fun. We got Lupita to play wall ball with us. Which I
realized is like a white kid’s street game. No one knows how to play it!! Which
is sad because I love it! I have also reached one other goal that I will not
tell you about, because it has to do with secret stuff hehehe. So this last
week was really good, and the Memorial Day activities were really fun. Okay so
yep we are really working with that family to come to a knowledge and be
baptized, I want it to be before I go home, but if it must needs be till after
as long as it happens. I learned a lesson similar to that one, with another
family. It was a great lesson on Humility, but If the Lord will's it, I would
love to be here for their baptism.
Okay so now on to the
spiritual thought. This actually came up two weeks ago, and I wrote it down to
write about this week, and it was a nice coincidence that it fell on the week
dad would come visit. So I was reading and pondering one day and with the help
of my Pat. Blessing and a few scriptures I realized a few things I thought were
cool. One is the immense love that God has for each one of us. Which is pretty
frankly stated so I won't elaborate. The next was of my own thinking. As missionaries
we are always asked "Why can't you talk with your family over the phone?
Why can't you see them more?" I came to this conclusion. One of the big
reasons I think is so that we may have at least a sliver a mere speck of what
it will feel like when and if we return to the presence of our Heavenly Father
and His Son Jesus Christ. Imagine the sweet joy of going back into our Heavenly
Parents presence. The joy we feel after being reunited with our families after
two years must be similar, just not quite as glorious. Also in an
interview I had with the Stake Pres. He said, If we live to be like 75 I think
it is approximately 2.2 years Heaven's time. So just about the amount of time
we are on our missions!! I thought that was pretty cool! When we reunite with
our families again after that period of time, we feel a piece of the Joy that
we will feel with our Heavenly Father when we return home. I thought that was a
pretty cool thought. The other is how much the mission resembles our own lives
and the way we learn and grow. We come in not knowing hardly anything, but
through the things we suffer and experience we learn. We continue to grow and
progress throughout this life, we continue to fight for things we want, and
make mistakes. In my eyes with the purpose that when we come back, we will be
thoroughly converted, much like we do when we come to this earth. So in reality
the mission is like a little life we have that plays with our entire life and
journey along the pathway to eternity! I thought that was pretty cool. Mission
is the preparation ground for life we have heard, but in all likeliness it is
like a little model of our life in many aspects. We are called and serve with people
we are supposed to meet, families, companions, friends, Investigators and
members. Things we are in need of learning, and obstacles to make us grow. I
think anyone who has been on a mission has felt this. As well as those who have
seen an Elder or Sister come home a different person then when he or she left.
As we left our Heavenly Fathers presence we were yet learning and young, and
when we get here we are put to the test and grow substantially. Then we are called
back home, and receive an “interview" of all we have done with our time.
Then we receive all the blessings we have worked for and maybe not all at once.
For there is "Eternal Progression in The Celestial Kingdom of God".
Of course they are not exact mirror images, but a very close analogy. So when
dad came to visit it was like my own little glimpse into heaven as the apostles
and prophets have experienced. When we have Calls and Skypes home, and the
fervent prayers that on occasion grant such miraculous experiences. Also the
weekly emails or the daily prayers and conversations we have with our Father in
Heaven. There are many more that I have thought about, so I could go one
forever, but I won't. This was kind of a cool thought I had for the week.
Anyway I love you so much and hope you have a great week! I look forward to
hearing from you next week!
Love, Elder Paxman