Monday, May 6, 2013

News from Indiana, week 2


Mom,
Hey, my stomach is doing really crappy, the food or something is absolutely killing me and it isn’t getting better.  I might have you send my prescription meds to me just in case.  We don’t get fed by the members every night, thank goodness because they get offended if we don’t take seconds and our first serving is so huge that I struggle to eat that... My stomach is really bloated which makes me really nervous, so I got some Miralax today to see if it will help and I have been watching my food a ton because I don’t want issues. 
Overall things are going great here besides the stomach.  P-days generally go something like this: we wake up, work out/ eat then study, then after study we do laundry, then clean the apartment, then get the car washed, then do e-mails (my favorite part).  Then we go to a church in White River and play games which is way fun.  Today I am way bloated and feeling like garbage so I am going to take it easy and write. 
I have not gotten your snail mail yet, it is probably going to get here today.  The only other people I have received mail from are the New Mexico relatives. That was fun.  It has been hard here, but worth it.  Most of our appointments still fall through, we end up teaching probably 2 times a night if we are lucky.  My trainer and I butt heads a little, he thinks we should solely tract to find new people but I believe if we could get referrals it would be much more effective. I also think we should maybe put our names on a hospital pastors list, or something like that. 
We only speak Spanish outside of the residence and sometimes inside but rarely. Yep our visa waiter is still with us and I like him, it makes not feel so alone with my terrible Spanish.... Yea I am glad I do not have to wait for a visa!! It is hard some days to stay positive and love everyone but I am getting better at it as the days go on. 
Grimm got transferred to another night?  That is weird, but how are you liking it, is it really good?? 
I do not drive, my trainer is the driver, but I will be eventually, which is good because he drives like a maniac!! That is weird with the musical thing, but she should definitely do it, I think she would really enjoy it if she did. (Our stake is putting on the musical “The Music Man” and I told him I was trying to get Brooklyn to get involved in the production) 
That is good your dinner went well with the DeYoungs.  I am excited to hear some of the wedding plans (hint hint). .  It rains probably 4 times a week which is nice.  I quite like it and it is very green here.  It has warmed up a lot for us, it was like 88 the other day and humid as all get out, but it is quite rainy today... it is green here and they say the fall is beautiful so I can’t wait for that.  Overall things here are going good.  We have found some solid Investigators and I can’t believe I have been in the field for 2 weeks now, it seems really really weird. I have not sent the SD card because I forgot that I have like no time to write during the week after I write in my journal, but I have been getting quicker so it should be coming sometime this week and that way I can write back snail mail when you write me some. 
I eat cereal and soup or kind of whatever is around, it changes on day to day... We are all from Utah, my trainer is from southern Utah and the visa waiter from Provo... I have only like 5 min left so I am going to have to wrap up...  
I have done a little bit of Spanish study as Ren suggested, one of the hard things is with my stomach I get hardly any sleep lately which makes the day very hard, but “he never said it would be easy he only said it would be worth it”.... (The suggestion from Ren is to study with the Book of Mormon in both languages open side by side) 
How is my plaque looking? That is exciting that school is almost over. It will be fun to be out of school for a while, especially with the weather and summertime. I just got a few minute extension so I will keep going... How is everything at home?? The same old stuff kind of? Here the days can get really repetitive and start to blend into one... I am really enjoying it here though!! Despite those few things I have already mentioned.  Are you looking forward to summer break and the wedding?? Tonight and tomorrow we are blitzing our section, which is where the Zone Leaders come with us and work our zone so we can get twice as much done. That will be interesting.  My Spanish is improving a little I am just way hard on myself with it, and it drives me insane not being able to understand or talk when I want to. I hope I start feeling better soon or I do not know what I will do....
I am excited to receive your snail mail today... and with the mother’s day call I don’t really know when I can call.  They haven’t told me anything and when I ask, my trainer gets a little frustrated with me.  When I find out I will try and let you know, but be ready anytime of the day.  My guess is it would be later in the day like 4 for you, but I have no idea, it may be early, I wish I knew... Sorry, so just have all of the phones on and I will call one of them, probably your cell first, but at an unknown time so sorry if something goes awry.  I will try and work it out so things will go ok and I can talk with all of you at the same time. But I have no clue. 
Well I have to go here soon so I love you all and stay safe, I miss you and pray for you daily!! 
With everything I have and all my love, your son Elder Paxman  
Dad,
I really enjoyed that short story it was really good, I really really enjoy those... I am doing ok... my stomach has been giving me some major issues.... I thought it might be beans but we haven’t been eating hardly any, so I think I might have mom send me my pills from home just to be safe... Other than that things are going great!!

My trainer and I butt heads a little because of some difference in opinion on how to find people... But I just go with what he wants... We get fed a ton of Mexican food and they feel bad if you don’t take seconds.  They give you a huge plate to start, so I have to figure out a nice way to let them know that I can’t eat that much, because it is killin me.  It is really good food though. My companion helps me with the language somewhat but it is hard because he has to teach two of us, since we are still a trio till he gets his visa. We speak it outside the apartment only and sometimes in, but it is difficult when we are doing studies because we need to understand each other. Yea I am hoping it will get better soon because it makes things so difficult...

Our residence is in a semi-ok area, if you go about a mile in any direction more it gets pretty bad especially east. Tell Aaron that I say Hi and hope he is doing well, also if he wants to write or e-mail he is welcome to! Work sounds like a doosie, the fires were probably really cool to go work, even the bus one.

Well here we are getting ready for our first baptism on the 14th and just continuing to teach and learn with each day. That’s awesome you ran a 5k.  I don’t think I could do that, I am not very good at running. It will be way fun when you and me can do some serious hiking.  We have found some really cool new people that I think are not far from baptism, once we teach them a few times.  They seemed very interested which made me so excited.

I am so excited to call on mother’s day.  They do not let us do skype here, so it will be just a call.  I have no idea when... I have asked around a little bit, but my trainer gets kind of impatient...

It is actually nice with all the rain here, it has rained a ton here... So that makes things interesting. I like it though.

We have a few very concentrated areas of Hispanics and one is like a huge trailer park. That is were we found 2 great new investigators... I have to get you and the fam my SD card.  Well Dad I have to go.... I can’t wait to hear from you on mother’s day and next p-day.  There are some really cool monuments here that we will have to go to when we come back in 2 years or so.

With all my love, your son, Elder Paxman



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